Our Right to Heal

In 2019, AFP was approached by a group of Black Canadian women fundraisers who wanted to tell their stories, both professional and personal. The project would contain a series of what we’re calling Bright Papers, each written by a member of the group, as well as videos and interviews. AFP is proud to present their project: Our Right to Heal.

Welcome Letter   |   Videos   |   Our Stories

“Stories are thus much more than a book or narrative – they are the way our minds make sense of our lives and world....”

- https://nalibali.org/news-blog/literacy-issues/story-meaning-making

For the majority of my 20-year career, I have been the only Black woman in the room. I continue to cope and manage that reality, but to be clear, it is work. The impact of this isolation is cumulative and there is much to be said about being “the only or the first.”

Most of the issues facing Black people in our institutions, and communities are systemic and deeply engrained, which is precisely why we are successfully kept from truly belonging.

But the Work of Undoing is about finding people who can identify with your experiences and frustrations, getting together because of this commonality, and unpacking and challenging it together. The Work of Undoing requires that when you get together you name and confront those things using whatever means available to you.

The stories we share unveil our individual experiences; the details of the injustice and inequity we face daily; they also reveal the depth of our individual and collective courage. These stories were written a year ago during times of certainty. And in this time of global crisis due to COVID-19, we believe exposure and understanding of our realities is even more critical.

These are revolutionary times and we know first-hand how Black women are uniquely situated within overlapping systems of oppression to sustain disproportionate losses of both life and livelihood during this pandemic.

“Black women are concentrated in frontline health care work. The agricultural industry employs large numbers of Black migrant workers who are affected by border closures. New State of Emergency declarations raise concerns about the intensification of racial profiling directed at Black communities. Black people make up a disproportionate amount of precarious workers, people in the gig economy, and home businesses such as hairdressing. Prisons, known as an epicenter of infections, disproportionately incarcerate Black people. The socio-economic impact of health means that COVID-19 will have a serious impact on Black communities and seniors.”

-  Halifax Examiner, “Black People Already Struggle to Breathe in Canada, Ignoring us During this COVID-19 Crisis Will Only make it Worse.”

During this time of chaos the conditions in which Black people live are amplified. The thought leadership and resilience that the Black community possesses is a commodity currently being squandered. Now is the perfect time to begin listening to and trusting the voices of Black people.

Our diverse Black Canadian stories are rarely told and it is even more rare that we have the opportunity to tell them ourselves, uncensored, in their painful authenticity. Maya Angelou said, “There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” And we have many untold stories to share. This is an exercise of self-care. Speaking our truth, sharing our lives and revealing our intelligence.

The past is gone. But we still live in its wake.” ~ Unknown

And so we begin by examining “Our Right to Heal.” Our stories are shared both for the reader to learn and empathize, but this is also medicine for the women who write. The agony of being made invisible, the assumption that our lived experiences and stories are not worth telling and the ultimate exclusion of our contributions must be acknowledged. These Bright Papers serve as an illumination and a therapy.

"Stories summon us to wisdom, strength and delight, and make the richness of imagination available to all of us. We engage in story to understand ourselves and our world as well as to envision a better world and to take action that makes a difference. They have the power to direct and change our lives and world – if we provide the time and space necessary for their role in meaning-making. Story is at the heart of who we each are as human beings. They are our memory and identity for in the stories could be found wisdom and in wisdom, strength.”

- https://nalibali.org/news-blog/literacy-issues/story-meaning-making

I couldn’t imagine a better investment of my time. It has been my true pleasure to immerse myself in the work of undoing while amplifying the voices of my sister-friends. We share our stories because we love ourselves, our communities and the education of our allies.

Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” ~ Audre Lorde

Nneka Allen, CFRE

Nneka Allen, CFRE, who brought the Our Right to Heal project to AFP’s attention, and Muthoni Kariuki, CFRE, MPNL, discuss the project, its impact on their own lives, what they’ve learned and what they want members to know about these critical issues affecting our profession and our world.

Teajai Travis, Poet, Educator and African drummer, joins the Our Right to Heal group with a powerful spoken word presentation about inclusion and belonging.

Our Stories

Fatou Jammeh

Fatou Jammeh

The Right to Heal
Camila Vital Nunes Pereira

Camila Vital Nunes Pereira

A Snippet of My Diary: “Early Memories in Fundraising”
Nicole Salmon

Nicole Salmon

Surrendering to Healing


Jennifer Bernard

Jennifer Bernard

My Mother’s Daughter
african violets

Fatou Seck

Comment guérissez-vous?/How Do You Heal?
Marva Wisdom

Marva Wisdom

Mining the Treasure and Talent of our Rich Diversity
Muthoni Kariuki

Muthoni Kariuki

A Time to Heal
Nneka Allen

Nneka Allen

Birthrights and Stonecatchers
Nneka Allen

Nneka Allen

The Strength of Healing

Additional Stories and Resources

baby shoes

Nneka Allen

From Advancing Philanthropy: A Currency of Another Kind

Muthoni Kariuki & Nicole Salmon

From Advancing Philanthropy: Motivation and Inspiration: A Common Bond
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